ARE YOU REAL OR FOLLOWER ?

I was just thinking nowadays being the real  is a big challenge. Even our own thoughts are not real. I wonder how deeply we are getting affected by our surroundings and even we are not realizing it. let's talk on our thoughts, are those thoughts are our own?

Our own point of view has got lost somewhere, today our point of view is influenced by movie, books or quotes we use to read.
Reading is the best thing but sometimes we start following those quotes because we use to think as it is infamous one so that will be correct. But my point is, where our own point of view has gone? isn't this weird, in today's era of educated people we are still so slave.

We take big decisions of life only by reading a small quote somewhere, like after watching a scene somewhere, a girl demands her boy to do that special thing for her but, she never thinks that her demand is dominating his own natural way of doing things. how will he do something which will be actually  his own mind's creation instead of following any movie scene or Internet idea? 

Similarly, boys have some demands which dominates girls natural way of handling a relationship.
Its kind of we  are just forgetting our own ability because we are just too confident about Internet ideas and movies instead of our own natural creations about anything.

what if, we don't read those quotes and have not taken any idea from any movie. I guess life would be much true and less complicated.

Because, in this case, our each and every decision will be our own, based on our own feeling. 

When we use to have a lot of ideas on a single topic, we just forget to create our own idea because we use to get stuck in those already invented ideas and we just never try to search it inside our own self in a true way.

So I feel these already created ideas are the big reason behind contraction of our ability to think over anything. we have just forgotten to do things in our own way.